My client said, "How can it be that I surrounded myself with things I don't care for?"
said the whys don't matter. All you know is that you don't care for a
lot of things in your home. You're being honest with yourself about the
discomfort you feel from much of your stuff.
when you have a stone in your shoe, you don't care how it got there. You
take off your shoe and remove the stone so that you can start feeling
better right now.