[Today's blog post is taken from the "Best of" clutter busting archives...enjoy!]
Our things make up the clothes our life wears. How does our stuff, the things we do, and the people in our lives fit?
We get so used to wearing these clothes that we think they are us, that
they are parts of us. And even if one of these things is causing us
discomfort, we hang onto it because of the intimate association.
That's why I encourage asking, "Do I like this, or can I let it go?"
because it helps us see that our things aren't us, that they are here to
provide us pleasure and take care of us, or we shed them like a shirt
that no longer fits.
recently helped a client clutter bust his kitchen pantry. He was
resistant at first, even though he complained that this part of his home
gave him a headache. The resistance felt like he was connected to what
was in there, which caused him to try and protect the stuff, even though
it was hurting him.
But as I began asking him about each item
of food in the pantry, the connection broke, and this gave him distance
to see with clarity that the majority of the food in there was old and
didn't fit his tastes and life now. He put this food in some boxes and
bags to take to a local homeless shelter.