I encourage you to take the goal out of clutter busting. The more you
can be with yourself and the thing you are considering in the moment,
the more open you can be, and it will be easier for you to make a
Think of this as taking a kind look. You are finding your own way of being gentle with yourself during the clutter bust.
When I clutter bust for myself, I start by taking a moment to relax. I consciously take a deep breath. I let my mind go to a quiet place. Then I pick an area and just start looking around. I'm curious to find what's feeling off. This approach has a way of turning my clutter radar on.
This also helps reduce any blame for things being the way they are.
Try finding a kind way for you to take a look.